I have suffered with EA since I was 15, now Im 48. (apart from a small remision when I was 23). So I have not felt an orgasm for over 20 years.
I seem to have a dopermine defficiency, as I have Restless Leg Syndrome. Since taking the dopermine, that has reduced a lot too.
So you're taking a dopamine agonist for RLS now? Mirapex?
I tried Mirapex because of it's prosexual side effects, but chickened out of when I upped the does too quickly and had an awful night of projectile vomiting.
I've tried tyrosine too, and in particular, just before sex. I get a marginal improvement in arousal.
Your story sounds similar to mine. Similar with the onset and duration of AE, and the general muted emotion. I've always felt that I'm playing with half an emotional deck, and just don't feel the stronger emotions. I did have some strong depression briefly when I upped my thyroid dose to where I stopped secreting TSH - though I don't think that the thyroid hormones were above the reference range at that point. To some extent, I wonder if that depression was a good thing - actually connecting to my emotions, for once. I had fairly good reason to be depressed at the time - in fact I'd spent a lot of time with the same reasons, but that was the first that I really felt the sadness, instead of just frustration or anxiety.