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gdop

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She claims to have solved almost 80% of the cases.
I was in her clinic, didn't work for me tough, altough I had to stop going there because of health problems.
Sorry in spanish.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HAKDaFWwIeI

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Re: Interview in uruguayan tv with a sexologist/therapist about the topic
« Reply #1 on: October 06, 2017, 02:55:06 PM »
She says most cases have a psychological reason, and she is mostly speaking about specific causes, such as delayed ejaculation, shyness, poor self confidence, personality issues... Obviously it's her field and she might have treated couples with those problems successfully. But most cases doesn't mean everyone's case.

She also says that there is almost no reseach on anorgasmia in men. That is sadly true. Anorgasmia isn't deadly and therefore is not a priority to solve. Like you said to me a few years ago, research requires money and funding usually goes to other issues which are more urgent to solve... Or just return money faster.

A few years ago, after visiting different doctors who apparently found nothing wrong in my medical tests, almost everyone said that I should search for a psychological solution. I went to a renowned sexologist in my city, knowing that I would probably just throw away some of my money. While I went to the sessions, she was searching for trauma, insecurities, any psychological reason which could have caused my insensitivity.

I opened the story of my life to her. I wanted to find something wrong in my mind and solve it... Mostly because everyone was so confident that the problem was in my mind. But it wasn't. Maybe now it is, after 10 years not feeling sexual pleasure... I'm not losing my hopes to find a solution, but still... I realise my thinking processes have changed. Now I know I will masturbate or make love and feel almost nothing physically... So my frequency of sex has diminished a lot, even though I get excited and have a high amount of desire. Everyone around me is gaining experience while I'm... On pause.

What I've experienced with doctors is that they either are not interested, or they don't know what to do. This is maybe a problem which should be treated by different specialists at the same time. I can tell there are different issues which could cause this, just by reading other people's stories. That would mean the solution may also be personal for each case.

I'm amazed this isn't investigated. Some doctors must suffer it and do nothing. Some rich people must suffer it and their money can't find doctors who are interested in the subject. The only thing I can think of, is this problem being a few orders of magnitude more difficult than the current knowledge we have about our biology.


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Re: Interview in uruguayan tv with a sexologist/therapist about the topic
« Reply #2 on: October 12, 2017, 08:23:08 AM »
>She says most cases have a psychological reason, and she is mostly speaking about specific causes, such as delayed ejaculation, shyness, poor
> self confidence, personality issues... Obviously it's her field and she might have treated couples with those problems successfully. But most
> cases doesn't mean everyone's case.

Yes, most of the causes or effects that she speaks about doesn't even match with mine,

>  I realise my thinking processes have changed. Now I know I will masturbate or make love and feel almost nothing physically... So my
> frequency of sex has diminished a lot, even though I get excited and have a high amount of desire. Everyone around me is gaining
> experience while I'm... On pause.

More or less the same here.

>  This is maybe a problem which should be treated by different specialists at the same time

Well, her clinic do have an interdisciplinary team, so you are treated with different doctors of different specialties. Didn't help me either... went fpor a year or so, anyway, as I said before, I had to stop going because of other problems.