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I'm Cured! / Re: Cured after 20 years of little or no pleassure from ejaculation
« Last post by alexxa on November 06, 2017, 04:05:25 AM »
Wow that is great.  Did you notice the effects right away or did it take a few days?  I have pleasure again with Adderall which acts on dopamine.  So I agree it definitely is something in the brain.  Any side effects?
General Discussion / Re: Only have enjoyable Os under extreme pressure
« Last post by sensation on November 01, 2017, 07:54:38 AM »
DeeDee, you don't have sexual anhedonia. After exploring other aspects of sex, you have found what is enjoyable for you and you get orgasms. Anhedonia means the person doesn't get pleasure at all, no matter the situation. I think you did well. My opinion is that if anyone finds pleasure in something, it should be a personal path to explore.
General Discussion / Re: Only have enjoyable Os under extreme pressure
« Last post by DeeDee on October 29, 2017, 11:15:49 AM »
Our sex life was failing, mine and my husband's. I wasn't experiencing orgasm,or at least wasn't enjoying them. Then he took me to an adult arcade. Then things changed. I found that I orgasmed strongly with men I didn't know,who I never really met or knew their names. I don't know if this connects with the extreme pressure thing or not, but when we go to the adult arcade I never know whats going to happen, who the men will be or how many will be there. What I always know is that I am going to have sex in a dark booth with men I don't know. And more often than not I have orgasms with every man I have sex with.

At the adult arcade we are in a locked booth, the booth is dark, I'm naked and the men do whatever they want with me, as my husband watches. This has helped me to not only orgasm, but enjoy the orgasms. I guess we're in the same kind of boat, kind of.
General Discussion / Re: Worried about performance with real women
« Last post by DeeDee on October 29, 2017, 11:00:04 AM »
I'm not a man, but I also have sexual anhedonia. I'm married and do not enjoy sex with my husband. He has trouble staying hard during intercourse, and he feels he is too small for me. I'd always enjoyed sex, then the enjoyment just stopped. I still wanted sex, but didn't enjoy it as much as I used to. We started swinging, well, we went to swing clubs and I had sex. I have found that other men never have trouble keeping erections and often have little to no refractory period. And most all of the men I have had sex with have been bigger than my husband. The enjoyment is kind of there sometimes, and usually when I have sex with multiple men.

My husband has found that by watching me have sex with other men that he is able to stay hard longer and ejaculate more. My husband says that me having sex with other men has relieved him of a responsibility to please me,sexually, when other men are much better at it. I can't say that I orgasm with other men, but I can say that I do like the attention I get from other men. And it wasn't until we started swinging that I realized that the size of men's penises DOES matter.

I may not get as much enjoyment from sex as I would like to, but the men I have sex with who are better sized do feel better to me. I have also found that men who have bigger penises are more confident. They are also more apt to initiate sex. I think that what has helped me deal with my sexual anhedonia has been the fact that so many men have wanted sex with me. It seems the more men I have sex with, the better I feel about myself. And I think men feel that way, too.

My advice to you is, if you are well sized, above average, and you go out and have sex with as many women as you can, you will feel better about yourself and you won't worry so much about your performance. Remember, 20-30 minutes is not bad for intercourse. Most of the men I have been having sex with usually last about 30 minutes or so. So, if you are well sized, can last (stay hard and not ejaculate) for 30 or more minutes, you have nothing to worry about.

I'm Cured! / Re: Dostinex/cabergoine update
« Last post by bongo on October 27, 2017, 03:22:43 AM »
Hi I can't remember if I've tried this (probably) I can rememeber arimidex and spinalactone and many others people have sworn help. which country are you in and what mg tablets do you take half of. Where do you buy, what price, and how long taking them before any results ? Thanks
Contributing Factors - Physical / Re: Where I'm at right now as of 04.10.17
« Last post by RocketTN3 on October 22, 2017, 02:32:45 AM »
Your symptoms are much like mine, even the change of consistency of semen. Clearly, whatever was working, stopped working, not completely, but enough to have a major impact on sex and climax. My biggest anxiety is approaching a specialist about this with mostly undefined symptoms. Specialists react well to the word 'pain', I've noticed, but anything that can't be narrowed down or described away easily leaves them puzzled. Anyway, I've promised myself I'm going to make headway with this in the next few weeks. My workload is becoming a bit lighter now, so more time at the weekends and in the evening. Will post again when I have something of value to share.
I'm Cured! / Re: Dostinex/cabergoine update
« Last post by searchingforcure11 on October 16, 2017, 06:58:28 PM »
Wow man the benedryl would make me too tired.  I take 15 mg Adderall but if I took bendryl with it I would get sleepy and not be in the mood for it.  Do you edge as well?  I love edging.  Hmm Cabergoline.  Might have to see how that works.  I am still getting enjoyable orgasms and amazing build up.  I cant complain.  I think a big key to pleasurable orgasm is definitely not being so tense.  I think it could be from always edging I might have a habit of holding it in.  But sometimes I will have a not so good one and I think its because the muscles at orgasm tense and don't freely let loose.   Sex is better because you are able to relax that more so since you are not stimulating yourself. 
I'm Cured! / Re: Dostinex/cabergoine update
« Last post by Jabele on October 16, 2017, 05:58:57 PM »
Great news! How do you relax your pelvic floor before orgasm? I'm wondering if this is what I need to do because I get contractions that I don't feel and think I tense up too soon. Is there a position that helps force you to relax?
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