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General Discussion / Re: 33rd birthday
« Last post by runtech on April 05, 2018, 11:32:06 AM »

firstly I used to have them , then they stopped. No idea why.

Trust me it truly is not the end all and be all of life.  Happiness is not = orgasms.  Orgasm only lasts a small time.

True emotional happiness comes from many different sources.   And yes you can be happy with out them. It is all in the mind.  Eventually the depression does lift.

Take care. And hoping you post again soon. 

General Discussion / Re: New user intro
« Last post by runtech on April 05, 2018, 11:30:40 AM »
No change
I'm Cured! / Significant improvement with Yohimbine
« Last post by Syagrius on March 30, 2018, 02:13:33 PM »
Hi everyone,

Long time occasional reader but first time poster on this forum. I'm 30 years old, and I've experienced EA since I first started masturbating when I was 13. There are a couple of things that happened to me pre-puberty that could conceivable have caused it, but as far as I'm concerned I've always had this problem. I've had a reasonably healthy sex drive, and sexual activity itself is pleasureable, but ejaculation has always been totally anhedonic - there have been times during penetrative sex where I literally haven't realised it's happened until I started to soften afterwards.

Anyway: I first started to read up about this and look for solutions about three years ago. Since then, like many people here, I've been trying different medications or supplements that might help: zinc, royal jelly, various minerals, LSD, bupropion. Some of them (especially the latter) definitely improved my life generally, but none really affected the EA. Yohimbine was another supplement that I'd heard might help, but I had put off trying it because it's not legally available where I live. Recently I got around to importing some though, and I noticed an immediate, significant improvement.

I wouldn't go so far as to say I'm "cured", and since I've never experienced anything like this before I have no 0-10 scale to compare it to. All I can say is that within 12 hours of taking it for the first time I experienced something much more intense and pleasureable than before. The sensation of ejaculating is much more noticeable, and lasts longer. More importantly, it's accompanied by an obvious "full body" physiological reaction in a way I'd never experienced before: increasing heart rate, involuntary muscle movement, and a sense of release and relaxation afterwards. I wouldn't say it's mind-blowing or anything, but it's a hell of a lot better than the utter lack of sensation I had felt before.

It's been about a week since I started taking it, and I'm still doing half of the recommended dose. I'm hoping it might improve further with the full dose, but I also haven't tested what happens if I stop it - so I can't say that I'm permanently cured. I'm also aware that EA is more like a symptom than a specific condition with a single cause, so this may or may not work for anyone else. But it has made a huge difference for me, and I thought it might be helpful to share that.

I'm Cured! / oxytocin inhaler
« Last post by bongo on March 26, 2018, 01:58:30 PM »
Anyone tried this synoticon not the fake stuff ? Any good? I can't find a place to buy it yet .even though its made here in UK. General discussion posts  look like they've been hacked .
General Discussion / Re: Red wine seems to work!
« Last post by Rhadamanthus on March 24, 2018, 08:38:37 AM »
So, the interesting question is: what is it about the red wine that's been helping? I'm wondering if resveratrol might produce the relevant benefits without the side effects.
General Discussion / 33rd birthday
« Last post by txnerd on March 22, 2018, 10:33:13 AM »
i'm about to turn 33 and i've never had an orgasm in my entire life, or felt any sort of sensual feeling.

i went to every doctor, every test,  not low t, no nerve damage, on wellbutrin.

they said they have no idea.

i just can't with this anymore
General Discussion / Re: advice
« Last post by bongo on March 21, 2018, 11:41:20 AM »
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I'm Cured! / Re: I think I can state that I've found a "cure"
« Last post by karenina on March 13, 2018, 01:01:00 AM »
It's definitely the natural form. I don't doubt your truth, just saying it is not the same fix for myself. Happy for you nonetheless and encourage others to try. I still have about 25 g left so will finish this but not expecting a difference in myself.
I'm Cured! / Re: I think I can state that I've found a "cure"
« Last post by jrsousa2 on March 11, 2018, 09:10:00 PM »
Ok, but remember that it has to be the natural form, not the pills or capsules, that is crap.
The natural form is the real fresh royal jelly made by bees and fed to the queen Bey.
I'm Cured! / Re: I think I can state that I've found a "cure"
« Last post by karenina on March 11, 2018, 08:32:32 PM »
Tried for a few weeks now and no change... During this period I had probably the best orgasm that I've had since developing this condition, but it was still rubbish and a one off.... a coincidence, I think. (would rate it 3/10 if 10 was normal) still complete disconnect from how it used to feel though.
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